Please don’t kill the messenger, okay?
The chances are very high that the Gemini man is playing mind games with you. In fact, it’s a part of who he is as a Gemini man.
I understand that this can be frustrating to find out. However, things will certainly change when you can identify the types of mind games that he’s playing.
you put yourself in a much better situation when you can figure out the types of mind games that he’s playing, and why he’s playing them.
Why Do Gemini Men Play Mind Games? What You Need To Know
The Gemini man is about as logical as you can be (maybe aside from Capricorn men). So one of the biggest reasons why Gemini men play mind games is to see how you will respond.
When a Gemini man is playing mind games with you, he almost sees it as a mental challenge (kind of like playing chess). Not only is it a challenge for him, but he enjoys the competition and wants to see how you react.
He also might be asking thinking or asking himself:
- Can you keep up with me?
- Will you be able to give me my space when I need it?
There are plenty of things that he will be able to gauge when it comes to playing mind games. First things first though, you need to be able to recognize if this Gemini man is playing mind games in the first place.
Here’s How To Tell If The Gemini Man Is Playing Mind Games (Warning Signs)
It can be very easy to see that a Gemini man likes to play games. From his perspective though, he sees it as simply being himself and having fun.
So, what are some sure signs that a Gemini man is simply having fun (or playing mind games) with you? Let’s quickly talk about some of the biggest indicators.
1) The Gemini Man Acts Like A Magician
This is what’s referred to as the Gemini man disappearing act. In fact, this trait is so common in Gemini men that I wrote an entire article about which I will link down below for you.
Very Highly Related: About The Gemini Man Disappearing Act
In case you don’t want to read the article, this is when the Gemini man seems to vanish into thin air. Everything was going great, which makes it seem as if there was no rhyme or reason for it.
Talk about the ultimate mind game. Not very nice, Mr. Gemini man.
2) The Gemini Man Can Quickly Go From Very Hot, To Very Cold
This one is pretty easy to spot, even from a mile away. Everything will be going great with the Gemini man, and then for no reason at all, he will go from very hot to very cold. In other words, he can go from being:
- Caring, kind, and flirtatious.
- To the polar opposite of simply ignoring you.
Given the fact the Gemini zodiac sign is twins, this goes hand in hand with a Gemini man almost having two personalities.
This can certainly be the Gemini man playing mind games at his best. Once again, this issue can happen for almost no rhyme or reason and it can certainly be frustrating. Two can play that game though.
Here’s How To Play Mind Games With A Gemini Man
So, the Gemini man can almost thrive on playing games. And you know what? Sometimes, the best course of action is to beat the Gemini man at his own game. In fact, he might gladly welcome the competition.
Here are two great ways to throw the mind games back in his direction.
1) Show Less Attention To The Gemini Man
This can be quite a fun strategy to use (if done properly, of course). Even better, by showing less attention to the Gemini man, it also reveals to him that you can be respectful to his freedom and space.
By showing less attention, this can come in the form of:
- Talking to him a little less.
- This also means that you lower the number of texts sent.
- You can also add more mystery to the conversions that you have.
Maybe let him know that you already have fun plans, but at the same time, he doesn’t need to know what it is or who you’re doing it with. Short and simple things like that.
Lastly, don’t cut off the Gemini man completely. There’s a difference between playing some friendly mind games and not being interested at all, and a Gemini man will be able to tell if you’re not being real with him.
2) Be Even More Extroverted Than Him
This might seem like the complete opposite of the previous strategy, but it’s very useful for specific scenarios. For example, this would be best served at any type of group setting or social gathering. Heck, maybe even at work if he happens to be a co-worker.
The Gemini man wants to be the life of the party, so you can alter that reality by constantly being in the spotlight. In a group setting, be the gal who is constantly opening up conversations with other people.
If this special Gemini man is as outgoing as he should be, then he will most likely know that you are quite the fun challenge for him.
Closing Words About Playing Mind Games
There’s no doubt about it that Gemini men can play mind games with you. It’s important to know that you might not always want to play mind games with a Gemini man though. First of all, Gemini men are excellent at this, as it’s what they always do.
Next, and as the popular line states:
You play stupid games, you win stupid prizes.
At the end of the day, you might find yourself playing mind games only to realize that this specific Gemini man isn’t worth the extra hassle over. While I can’t make the decision for you, it’s something that you will have to keep in mind when it comes to that special Gemini man.
So is playing mind games going to be worth it for you? Once you know the answer to that question, then you’ll know exactly how to proceed and move forward.
I hope that this helped you get a much better understanding of what’s going on in a Gemini man’s mind. Thank you for taking the time to read his article and best of luck with that special Gemini man.