Gemini’s are capable of showing quite a lot of affection when they’re interested in you.
While it’s not true for every Gemini man, most Gemini men just aren’t big fans of cuddling.
Don’t worry though because it has nothing to do with you. Rather instead, it has more to do with how the Gemini man thinks and operates.
Why Don’t Gemini Men Like To Cuddle?
Everyone likes to showcase their love and romance in different ways, and this is true, especially when it comes to the Gemini man. Geminis also tend to operate on logic, which is a big reason why they seem to be so emotionally unattached.
The art of cuddling comes down to two people laying in one spot, which is not a whole lot of activity. When it comes to Gemini men, they are the kings of easily being bored and cuddling can be seen as a pretty boring experience.
Please remember that this is nothing against you and more so how a Gemini man operates. In fact, here are a couple of extra reasons why that Gemini man might not prefer to cuddle up with you on a late Friday night.
1) Gemini Men Can Tire Out Pretty Easily
The Gemini man is going to be one of the most outgoing and extroverted guys that you know. If you’ve ever seen him in action, then you’ll know just how energetic and lively he can be on an average day.
- The Gemini man wants to be the life of the party.
- The Gemini man loves talking to as many people as possible.
- And don’t forget that the Gemini man is capable of being easily distracted.
Just those three characteristics alone can make it for a very exhausting day.
So if a Gemini man doesn’t want to cuddle or snuggle with you and would rather have a little space, don’t take it as a bad thing. The chances are high that he just wants to sleep when his head hits the pillow at night. The poor guy just needs to recharge his batteries.
2) Gemini Men Prefer Cuddling Alternatives For Affection
It’s not the end of the world if a Gemini man doesn’t want to cuddle. In fact, this issue can allow you to be more spontaneous and resourceful when it comes to being more romantic.
If you’re running out of ideas, here are a few romantic gestures that the Gemini man will most likely want to participate in with you. Unless of course, he’s exhausted from being a Gemini and doing Gemini things 🙂
He Likes Walking Hand In Hand With You
Gemini men have been known for their love of walking hand in hand with you. In fact, this is a really big sign that he’s into you (in case you didn’t already figure it out).
The Gemini man loves being spontaneous and adventurous, so this is an activity that you can do just anywhere that you go together. That’s not going to be the case with cuddling, so in a way, consider holding hands with a Gemini man a big win.
Gemini Men Love Kissing
What’s better than cuddling? Locking lips with that Gemini man that you just can’t stop thinking about. Not only do Gemini men like to use their mouth (in more ways than one), but many times they’ll like doing it in public.
Clarification: With regard to the previous line, they can like kissing in public 😛
Something else to keep in mind is that Gemini men tend to be excellent kissers. After all, he’s outgoing and energetic, and there’s a good chance that he’s had some good experiences when it comes to locking lips.
Just make sure that you keep a good gauge on the Gemini man and how he responds to public displays of affection. There’s a big difference between making out in the middle of a crowded area, and locking lips when only a few people are around.
If you’re still working on the first kiss with that Gemini man, then be sure to start off in a place where it’s just you and him. You can always be more spontaneous down the road when it comes to kissing locations.
If A Gemini Man Wants To Cuddle
In the beginning, I talked about how most Gemini men aren’t going to want to cuddle. It’s just not their thing.
However, there are going to be those few select Gemini men who will want to cuddle with you.
Maybe you’ve really gotten to know each other and he is willing to do something that he generally doesn’t like. Maybe he’s spent so much time with you that he doesn’t feel purely exhausted when his head hits the pillow at night.
Regardless of what the reason is, consider this specific scenario like finding a needle in a haystack. Not only should you celebrate and enjoy this mini win of a Gemini man wanting to cuddle with you, but you should also probably buy a lotto ticket.
