The Cancer man is notoriously known for being crabby, and he also has quite a few recognizable signs when he’s done with you.
Let’s talk about what they are, and what they mean.
4 Signs A Cancer Man Is Done With You
A Cancer man can be a tender, loyal partner when he is in love. But once the cancer man has had enough of you, he will make it clear that your time with him is over and done with.
He’s not going to cheat on you or go out of his way to break up with you; he’ll stop returning your calls and texts until eventually, there is no more contact between the two of you at all.
1) Cancer Man Won’t Open Up
One of the signs a Cancer Man is done with you is when he doesn’t want to open up and share his feelings. Cancer men typically associate getting to know someone intimately as an invasion of their personal space and talk about themselves as “boring.”
Cancer men don’t like to talk about their feelings, and if they did, it would be a one-sided conversation.
Sadly, this is one of the most challenging signs for a Cancer Man to give. After all, crabs are nothing if not typically tight-lipped and secretive sorts.
Furthermore, barring any other sign from him that he’s ready to stop seeing you or talking to you altogether, staying in his shell is often simply his way of protecting himself from all the emotional whiplash.
I’ve noticed that many Crab guys refuse to let me into their shells partly because they’re often embarrassed by how much sadness and vulnerability resides there.
They also worry about disappointing people by opening up when they fear letting others in might result in them losing control of their emotions.
2) Cancer Man Won’t Be Romantic
Sometimes a Cancer will seem done with you because his romantic feelings have been lessened by the lack of romance between the two of you.
In relationships, this is usually a red flag for the woman. After all, one thing that feeds romantic love is being romantically loved in return. So if he’s not feeling as loving toward you as you are to him, it’s a pretty strong signal that his feelings for you may be fading away.
Cancer men are not always the romantic sort. They can be, but they’re usually on more of an old-fashioned side than some other signs may prefer.
If you find that he’s no longer bringing you flowers or making sweet gestures for no real reason (unless it has to do with his kids), the chances are good that he’s done with you.
The Cancer man is a bit old-fashioned in this sense and will not continue to want someone who doesn’t reciprocate his feelings for them.
Cancer men are compassionate when it comes to romance and affection: they can go from no feelings of love (or even dislike) toward you one day to completely loving you the next.
This is why Cancer men are usually so clued in when it comes to their partners’ feelings.
They feel everything you do, and if he feels like maybe your love for him isn’t as deep or genuine anymore, chances are good that will be his way of telling himself (not necessarily you) that he’s done with you.
A Cancer man who has done this before and is ready to end things with you could be trying to soften the blow of his decision by not acting as romantic or affectionate.
Or, if a man was never all too romantic in the first place, he may not feel like it’s necessary to act that way anymore if his feelings for you aren’t as strong anymore.
3) Cancer Man Distances Himself
Cancer men are very emotional and sensitive because they feel everything with their emotions more than many other signs do.
So if he’s suddenly cutting himself off from you without telling you why or reacting negatively toward something you’ve done (or not done), the chances are good that he’s done with you romantically, too.
He might not even be aware of it himself. After all, emotions can do funny things to people and make them act in ways they wouldn’t typically want to or expect themselves to.
The truth is still there. If a Cancer man has stopped initiating contact with you, this is usually a sign that he’s done with you.
- If his feelings for you aren’t as strong anymore.
- iI there are no signs of reciprocation from your end.
- If he doesn’t think it’s worth the effort to make things work between you two…
Then the chances are good that he’ll cut off all contact, disappear, and leave you wondering what happened. That’s the Cancer man for you.
4) Cancer Man Blocks You From His Life
Scrolling through his Facebook and seeing that he’s blocked you, understandably, is a sign that he’d rather be the president than talk to you ever again.
In general, if a person wants nothing to do with you, they don’t want anything from you anymore. Usually, this means emotional vulnerabilities or resources which can be shared during tough times.
Cancer people are notoriously passionate and often use every excuse not to talk about things head-on, so good luck getting closure from them.
If you are blocked on social, then that is very likely rejection. If he stops you from his life, then that means he is done with you even before you move because it’s unlikely somebody blocks somebody they care about by accident.
At this point, if he hasn’t told or hinted to your face what bothers him, there’s no talking to him until he comes clean on why the lack of interest.
Do Cancers Fall Out Of Love Easily?
Cancers are very reserved, introspective people that take things slow. It takes time for them to open up and know if they have feelings for someone.
They have a hard time admitting their feelings, which you see as “falling out of love.” It also doesn’t help that because it takes time for them to show their true colors, they need the person showing genuine interest.
Cancers like to take their time and get used to the idea of love before taking on such responsibility. For some, falling in love can seem scary; for others, it means becoming vulnerable by letting somebody into your heart and life.
If you’re interested in a Cancer man, giving them space is also not a bad idea.
If they are not responsive to you, then the chances are good that it is time for you to move on because there’s no reason for them to play games with your heart if they aren’t interested anymore or have nothing more left in the relationship.
You can only hope he calls one day too, but don’t waste your time until this happens.
If you notice he’s stopped trying to make things work or even hurting himself for your sake, it might be a sign that the relationship is over and there’s no going back from here.
If he doesn’t let go of his anger after breaking up with him, this could mean that you broke his heart beyond repair. Not that you should feel guilty about it because there’s an excellent chance that he didn’t deserve to be in your life.
Knowing When A Cancer Man Is Done: Closing Words
The Cancer man can be a tender, loyal partner when he is in love. But once the cancer man has had enough of you, he will make it clear that your time with him is over and done with.
One of the signs a Cancer man is done with you is when he doesn’t want to open up and share his feelings. Sometimes a Cancer will seem done with you because his romantic feelings have been lessened by the lack of romance between the two of you.
A Cancer man will no longer initiate contact with you. All these are ways for them to disappear from your life without having to come out and say it.
If you notice that he is no longer trying to make things work or even hurting himself for your sake, then the relationship might already be over and done with.